I PLANT Dandelions


Hey yall!!! ...whoops!
Letting that southern slang sneak in...can you tell I'm from Georgia?!

I'm Heather Coley.

Wife to, Jimmy, the hottest guy I've ever laid eyes on
(had to snag him when I was in the 7th grade :) ,
"Mama" to 2 of the most creative & fun kids south of Atlanta,
Entrepreneur,
Realtor,
Success Coach,
& Little League Baseball "Dug out Mom".


Family is important to me.

Growing up my mom owned a beauty salon in our basement, and I took for granted that "Mama" was going to be home when I got home from school.

Call me a little old fashioned..."Leave it to Beaver"..but that's what I've always dreamed of, being like "Mama".

That's the lifestyle I live.

It's the lifestyle I've created.

I take our children to school every morning. I pick them up in the afternoons. I go on field trips & set my schedule around soccer & baseball games.

These times are precious and I am well aware that there will be a day that I will long for them to want "Mama" to come eat lunch with them at school.

I am passionate about what I do.
I am passionate about WHO I am.

Jimmy and I are full blooded "entrepreneurs". We've been involved in the home business industry since the mid 90's, not long after we got married. We've owned several businesses, and still do today.

I've had my real estate license for over 5 years now, and enjoy working with buyers and doing some investing.

I LOOOOVE getting a good deal...on anything!

For this reason, I expect no less when I'm helping someone buy a house.

I learned long ago, that one of the Big secrets is
"More value than cost". Plain and simple.

I have to admit that teaching is my passion. Whether it's teaching someone marketing ideas to help in their home business, or educating someone on the process of buying a home....it's what I love!

I love studying books from long ago. Books that are over 100 years old. Those that have values, wisdom, & truth. Give me some King Solomon, Wallace Wattles, or Napoleon Hill and I'm a happy camper!

Some people ask why I chose a dandelion to be on my site. It's simple and so profound, and made so much sense.

They spread increase....and they do it in a "Fun" way!

And as their seed scatters, they raise up others that will do the same.


Whew! Beautiful! Love it. Love it.

Now you know why I love to say... "I PLANT Dandelions".

Seeing someone become better...
There's just no greater feeling.


No greater reward.


Heather Coley

My junior high sweetheart's wife, "Mama" to Hannah & Gage, Angel of Prosperity, Real estate lady, Yankees "Dug out" Mom, Grandaughter of a Junkyard Hippy, Beach Body Coach


Sunday, March 1, 2009

Digging up Fred Flintstone

Growing up one thing was constant…traveling to Florida to fish every weekend.

Mom would have the truck ready and packed for when Dad got off work.

Then off we’d go for another action packed weekend of reels, squid, & flea markets. Whew! I’m missing it already! LOL

To say my Dad loves to fish, would be an understatement. He eats, sleeps, breaths it, so driving 6 hours one way to fish for one day was never an issue in his eyes.

My grandparents had a simple house on the bay in Panama City. Still do. It literally was my second home growing up.

I would entertain myself by fishing off the dock for bait, making castles in the vacant lot of sand across the street, & playing baby dolls with my cousin, Dixie, that was living the same life I was.

I’ll never forget one particular weekend.

I came up with a brilliant idea….at least I thought. I soon discovered that Mom didn’t think so.
In my love for Fred Flintstone vitamins, I decided to bury the bottle in the sand.


It was simple in my young mind. I thought they were good and I wanted to know I could have some later.

But when Mom found out she freaked! Boy was she scared I was going to OD on Fred Flintstone.

This story always makes me laugh, but I want to ask you a Bedrock question?

How many times have you buried something that was “sweet” to you?

We’ve all heard the wisdom from long ago…the parable of the talents.Where the one man hid up his and later on lost it completely, while the other only experienced increase because he used his.

We are promised that we ALL have been given a talent.
There are no “favorites” here on schoolhouse earth.

But so many times that negative voice of your conscious tells you secretly that there are.We look at others and argue.Most of the time it’s because we are seeing a talent that is easily seen or heard.

For example the ability of a beautiful painter, the concert pianist, or the singer who has the voice of an angel.We look at these “talents” of others and say…“Wow! I sure wish I could paint like that…play like that…sing like that…”

So am I saying that we each have equal talent to that of some of the “Greats”?

ABSOLUTELY.

There is no difference in the “amount” of talent between

You & Faith Hill.

You & Michael Jordon.

You & Thomas Kincade.

You & Billy Joel.

Now hold on…wait a second…before you go sitting down at the piano and trying to belt out “Piano Man”, let me clarify.As you are well aware, we each are different. We each are unique.But we all are blessed with specific gifts.

The difference is that some have RECOGNIZED their talent, while others have yet to. They’ve went even further than recognition though, they’ve ACTED on it.

Now let’s think back to the vitamins…


Pretend that they were my “talents”.When I recognized they were “good”, I wanted them all to myself, so I buried them.I didn’t want to share them.

Now besides the fact a child shouldn’t be handing out Flintstones like candy, let’s ponder the concept.


Instead of burying them, what if I had shared them with others that were lacking nourishment?


Plain and simple.

Share your talents, don’t keep them to yourself.

What if Faith only sung in the car to herself?

What if Michael played basketball at home alone?

What if Thomas painted a picture only in his mind?

What if the “Piano Man” only played after everyone had left the bar?

Like I mentioned before, it takes not only recognizing your gift, but “acting” on it or “pursuing” it.Is there something that you just have an absolute passion for? Maybe a thought that continues to come to you? Or just something that you are naturally good at?

Zero in on those things.

These are GIFTS.

YOUR GIFTS.

Now give yourself permission.

Share.

Study.

Pursue.

Bring ALL of yourself to the table. Begin pouring out your GIFT into other people.

Your “success” will come when you LOVE what you do.

Don’t be afraid to dig up Fred Flintstone and SHARE.



Until next time…I’ll take a grape Dino…what’ll you have?

Flintstones for EVERYONE!!!

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Monday, February 2, 2009

Watch out for Lucy!

Long before Sponge Bob & Hannah Montana were even thought of, there was good ol' Charlie Brown.

Such a classic.

It would never fail. My Nanny Louise would call. She'd tell my mom"Tell Heather... Charlie Brown comes on tonight".

She knew I loved him,but me watching the cartoon always made my mom a little anxious.

Just like in the "Witch and Monkey" scene in the Wizard of Oz, she would make me cover my eyes.And when I didn't want to...she'd try to prepare me for what was about to happen.

Mom said it would "devastate" me when it would happen.

You know the scene I'm talking about...Lucy holding the football. Charlie running with all his might to kick it.

Then "AAAUUUGGGHHH!" there she goes again.

Taking it away,Causing Charlie to go flying for a loop and crashing to the ground.
I would cry....and cry...and cry...I HATED what she would do.


The meanness. The deceit.

It has always broke my heart seeing someone get their hopes up, seeing someone "giving it all they got",for then someone else to "take it away".


Do you see what is happening today?

It's all around us. Everywhere we turn. Our message to you.

BE AWARE.

BE SMART.

BE READY.

I find myself covering my eyes once again.

Call me tender hearted if you want.

But our hearts break when we see good people, like Charlie, trusting "Lucy's".


So again.


BE AWARE
You won't recognize "Lucy" today. She won't have black hair and be wearing a blue dress.She might be the company you've given your heart to for the past 20 years,


Maybe it's the new "internet" program that promises you "easy riches",Or the home business that takes thousands from you and is gone tomorrow.



BE SMART
Start today figuring out how to add additional income streams to your life.Pay close attention to what you love.

Educate yourself.

Feed your mind with "good books".Learn what it means to "be still" and "LISTEN".



BE READY
Even if you're prepared, you might still stumble or even take a tumble, but you won't be taken off guard and fall hard like Charlie.You see if Charlie would've been ready, he would've known what to expect.


Perhaps he wouldn't have ran so hard.Perhaps he might have slowed down.
One thing that is for sure, he would've had OPTIONS...


So here we are... Jimmy and Heather Coley aka "Linus & Peppermint Patty"


Shouting to YOU from the sidelines"Hey Charlie! Watch out for that chick Lucy!"


Get aware. Get smart. Get ready.


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Monday, January 5, 2009

Hootie's Wisdom

Something pretty special happened on Thanksgiving Day back in 2006.
Little did I realize that morning as I began preparing the turkey, that it wasn't going to be the only "bird" in the house that day...

Jimmy has always had an appreciation for birds in the wild. He's been known to about run off the road to stare at a red tail hawk perched up on a farm fence.

When we were younger he used to speak of having a desire to be a "falconer".

So needless to say, I wasn't too surprised that day he brought home a baby horned owl that he had found that morning on the ground outside the fire department. He brought the little guy home in a box with plans to take him to "Noah's Ark" (a local animal habitat that helps injured wildlife).

Let me tell you. "Hootie" (as the kids called him) was gorgeous!

He had the biggest eyes you've ever seen. They were captivating!

We all stared in amazement when he would turn his head practically 360 degrees.It wasn't long before the kids were begging us to keep him as a "pet" and we were stroking his feathers like you would pet a kitten.

He decided to fly up and perch on a ledge near the kitchen for hours. He sat there, when not asleep, looking down upon our Thanksgiving feast...probably wondering..."How did I get in this place?"

Ever felt like that?

At some point during the day he decided to take flight and had "landed" in our bedroom...perching upon the mirror to our dresser.

It was getting late & time for bed, and I asked Jimmy "So what are you going to do with your "pet" for the night?"

He then said "Nothing...he'll be okay where he's at...he's not going to hurt anything."

I told him I wasn't taking any chances and it was just a little too crazy sleeping with a wild bird in the room...so I was sleeping with the kids!

Him & "Hootie" could have the room all to themselves. :)

Not even 10 minutes in the dark, I heard all kinds of commotion. I knew what was going on.

His "pet" had woke up! and was probably ready to hunt.He came barreling out into the hall, owl included. The house we lived in was over 100 years old, so the ceilings were about 12 ft. high and the hall was wide. So "Hootie" was taking flight again.

Yes...girls..this is one of those sweet moments when I got to
say "Told you so!!!"

It was apparent that Hootie wasn't as injured as we thought.

He was going strong.

Jimmy then opened the front door and he flew out. Just like that.

Gone.

So why do I tell you our "crazy baby owl" story?
What's the point?...other than you thinking we're a bunch of nuts! :)

To teach WISDOM.

To teach AUTHENTICITY.

My question to YOU is ....Who are YOU???

"Hootie" knew who he was.
He was an owl.He "did" owl.
He knew where he was suppose to be.He knew what he was suppose to be doing.
(His Creator's purpose for HIM)

But get this...just like Society, Your Boss, Your Family, Your Friends, Etc. will do,WE were trying to make him into something he wasn't.

We attempted to make him into a kitten by "petting him" and "talking sweet" to him.
But "Hootie" wasn't a kitten.He was a baby owl.

How many times do we play the part of "kitten" when we KNOW we are a "baby owl"?

Is that the reason we stay in jobs that we secretly HATE?
Maybe because "that's what your father did...his father did...etc"?

Is that why we restrain ourselves from going after our dreams?Because we are worried what society will think if we take a stand for something "out of the ordinary".

For most people,It's just easier...Easier to get petted,Easier to keep being sweet talked to,Easier to just keep staying "safe".

Most people feel that spreading their wings and Being their "authentic self" is "scary" and "unknown".

What was cool is that "Hootie" knew WHO HE WAS,He knew he didn't belong trapped in a house, He knew he had a purpose.

He knew that he was born "FREE".
So what about YOU?
What next?
What do YOU do?

"Hootie" couldn't get out the door.
It was shut.
He needed someone to open the door for him.
But we were not opening doors. We were being complacent...(well let's say Jimmy was :)

"Hootie" wasn't though.So what did he do?

He created ACTION.

He created action so that the door HAD to be opened.

So our question again to you is .... WHO are you?

Are you being "owl"? ...are you being your true authentic self?
If it is "freedom" that you want...The answer is simple.

Create YOUR action.
Don't play "kitten".
Be YOU.
Start spreading your wings.

MAKE DOORS OPEN

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